While traditional weddings follow a set of customs and conventions, couples are more and more seeking ways to personalise their celebrations. From personal vows to bespoke decor and interactive guest experiences, there are so many opportunities to infuse your wedding day with little personal touches. 

1. The Vows:

One of the most meaningful and thoughtful ways to personalise your wedding ceremony is by writing and exchanging customised vows; about your love, commitment, and promises for the future, all in your very own words. And if you didn’t want to use these as part of the official ceremony, then you can always exchange them in a private moment … if you can find one! 

2. DIY Decorations:

Another great way to add personal touches to your wedding is with DIY decorations! Whether you're crafting centerpieces, signage, or table settings, DIY decorations offer endless possibilities for customisation … plus the added benefit of saving a few £££! Get inspired by Pinterest boards, DIY articles and Etsy and enlist the help of friends and family to bring your vision to life.

3. Personalised Music Playlist:

Music plays a huge role in setting the mood and atmosphere of your wedding day, so why not create a personalised playlist? From the ceremony processional to the last dance, curating a playlist of your favorite songs allows you to infuse your wedding day with songs that have a story to tell, for you, your partner, and your guests. 

4. Signature Cocktails:

Signature cocktails are a brilliant way to add a personal touch to your wedding reception and delight your guests with unique drinks. There’s a ton of ideas online for both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks; from twists on classics, innovative concoctions, to boozy popsicles! And get creative and give them fun names. You could even offer a his-and-hers collection to make sure that a little bit of both of you is captured in the cocktails.

5. Interactive Guest Experiences:

We love this one! Photo booths with props and backdrops that reflect your wedding theme is a great way to add a personal touch. Or create a digital guest book where guests can not not only leave messages but also add pictures and even a ‘caption this’ picture - just for fun! Other ideas; polaroids, handmade life-size photo frames for guests to strike a pose in, games … who can resist a game of Jenga!, date night ideas jar, the ‘key’ to success - advice given by guests on a key … the list of interactive elements is endless!

6. Unique Venue Selection:

The wedding venue! Why not choose a location that holds special meaning to you and your partner? Maybe the place where you first met, your first date or where you got engaged. Or you could think about unconventional venues such as art galleries, forests, or even local landmarks that offer a one-of-a-kind backdrop for your celebration!

7. Family Heirlooms and Keepsakes:

Incorporating family heirlooms and keepsakes is a wonderful way of honouring your family’s history and creating a sense of continuity and tradition. Maybe it's wearing your grandma's wedding veil, displaying old family photos, or using vintage decor elements, incorporating family heirlooms. A lovely way to keep family traditions alive.

8. Interactive Ceremony Elements:

As well as interactive experiences, creating interactive ceremony elements is also a great way to personalise your big day. Perhaps a ceremony where guests participate in a symbolic ritual, a blessing ceremony, or a guest participation reading where guests share their favorite quotes or passages. Involving guests in the ceremony itself is a great way to make special memories.



So there you have it, a few ideas of how you can bring a bit of you and your partner to the wedding, rather than going with the ’traditional’ flow. From signature cocktails, to interactive games, to personal vows and readings, embrace your creativity!